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6 de Mayo, 2007
The True Front of Progressivism
Categorized under Blogando , Derechos Humanos , Frontera | Tags: Adoption, blogs, Hope
SOMETIMES YOU WONDER if blogging is a component of Real Change, done for distraction, provided as a social experience, or is just a game. And of course, it is all these things at different times. In their better moments, blogs can affect people and their views profoundly, just as a Great Book might, when dropped into your hands on a crucial day. In a "blogswarm," the People are given voice—the computer literate, Internet-connected, and blog-using People, that is—and companies can be informed of how many support or do not support their products and sponsored efforts. Money can be directed to politicians who in turn (at least in theory) are accountable to the views of those who sent them money.
Just recently Michelle Malkin struck a great victory against Verizon, and with her work, musical Artist Akon will no longer be represented by the corporation. She was upset with this partnership, feeling Verizon was letting its customers down by partnering with this man who held a dance contest where apparently a 14 year old girl was the winner, and to win she had to "dance like a whore." Now, I wasn't at the Akon concert, I don't know his music, and I'm not trying to validate his "Freaking" (as Malkin put it), but when I see Malkin getting roused and righteous about this Verizon partnership because Akon held freaking-dance contests in many places, and one time he let an underage girl take part, I have to wonder. I have to wonder why, on her far-reaching blog, I see more venom and calls to action about that, than I did for stories such as this from CNN:
In an interview with the U.S. Army's Criminal Investigative Division in June, Spec. James P. Barker, 23, said that he held the girl down while she was raped by another soldier, Sgt. Paul Cortez, during an incident in March in Mahmoudiya, according to testimony from CID Special Agent Benjamin Bierce.Barker said that he then attempted to rape the girl himself, before she was shot to death by former Pfc. Steven D. Green, Bierce said.
Yes, in Exceptions, not the Rule, she has a paragraph damning them...as well as hoping they pray for the rest of their lives for forgiveness, or "rot in hell." And then she moves on to remind us that they do not damn-by-association either the war effort, Bush, or validate the "Anti-war zealots." This is the only post containing Mr. Cortez's name, and it seems that was enough to carry her message.
That's right. There are more entries and more energy expended in keeping Verizon in line with its fine corporate standards than in following a story where United States soldiers killed an entire family in order to rape a girl, and "poured kerosene on the girl's bullet-ridden body" before trying to hide the entire deed.
This is a stark example—and there are many—where I have to wonder "Is blogging just a game?" If so, it is a dangerous one.
I think of the Goethe quote None are so hopelessly enslaved, as those who falsely believe they are free.
But we are all selective. And we all have blind spots. That is why situations like JC's here are good. He has many guest bloggers, and they all bring their points of view. He does not edit, he does not pressure, he does not in any way censor inflammatory posts, and he lets the Whole work its business when he brings in those voices. This is a good way to avoid blind spots and evidence of a true progressive nature in action.
In the "Brown Blogosphere," as we sometimes call the non-mainstream blogs that preference the issues and viewpoints of Mexican Americans, Latin Americans, blacks, Chinese, Koreans and others, Michelle Malkin is thought of as a "white POC." I'm sure you grok when I suggest that "white" and "brown" views need not be attached to skin color. Here is a relevant quote from a great, albeit sporadically updated, blog called The Silence of Our Friends:
But there are POC who will tell white people what they want to hear in order to get ahead, and there are POC who have been socialized and acculturated to believe in the all-American racist stereotypes. I know some personally. Is it really that hard to believe that a Native American who was raised in a white middle class neighborhood might absorb racist stereotypes about his/her people as well as other POC? That person might believe that the reason they got ahead was because of hard work, and not see that better schools in their middle class neighborhood helped, or that money and their parents white connections helped, and that person thinks white and acts white and is seen as "safe".
Now usually, I come to JC's place, our amigo "The General," and I bring my organ grinding pals and huge, magenta sombrero with which to entertain a crowd I know has a different viewpoint, overall. Also, I generally assume that the regular crowd comes here for laughter. I know I do. But even so, it would be stupid for me to assume that there is any "one" viewpoint shared by such a crowd, or that some of you do not agree with these sensitive points I make. Some of my favorite commenters or readers have come over to my place[http://www.theunapologeticmexican.org/elgrito/] from here (O, what hath become of thee, L.G.?). There are no walls that cordon off thought, and heart is the nimblest border-jumper there is.
But I do know many who read "mainstream blogs" are invested in, for the most part, a different way of seeing things. You may begin to bristle at this implication, but those of the Brown™ who weed through their daily junk-comment-pitchforks as I do understand what I mean. This dynamic is evidenced, for example (though not necessarily a mirror of the depths to which the hate can travel), in posts like this, where a huge comment count commences because even through my satire, readers of a mainstream blog understand my views are attacking, apparently, bastions of conventional American thought, even if they are not entirely sure what is being attacked that bothers them so. (More on the reception of this post later.)
Sometimes this reaction moves swiftly and undercover, and it takes a while to suss it all out. Any black or brown person who becomes political and stands vocally for Brown or Black Pride must become adept at handling the inevitable response. When people's bedrock views on race and place and culture and national identity are offended, they do not always respond directly. In fact, as we all understand on an intellectual level that it is Wrong to Hate on Minorities for being a Minority (exercising rights that whites expect defaulted to themselves) it is the one motive that is never stated, even when it is involved. I know this because I deal with many of these responses in the course of my writing. To the one dropping the comment—For you, talking about race is a necessity; for us, it is a luxury was a mild but telling one—their words are very cutting and original. But they do not realize how many times we see and hear these familiar hateful shapes dressed loosely in various iterations of transparent garb.
It is like my time training in Tae Kwon Do. To an untrained person, a fight becomes scary (and actually, I suppose they always are) because they are so unpredictable. But after a while of training, you prepare your eyes and brain with the knowledge that people "telegraph" their intentions and even their specific blows moments before they launch them. Your training brings you to a calm place where you stop nurturing a white-hot ball of panic in your belly, but instead silently and smoothly find the balls of your feet, loosen up your limbs and watch very carefully your adversaries tense spots, how they hold their hands, what parts of their body is moving and how, and where their eyes are targeting.
Writing in ways that offends the White Lens is like this. At first, the insults and dehumanization and even subtle, smart, digs seem terribly swift and unknowable, and hurtful. But after a while, you realize they really only take a few forms. And you can not only watch for them, but can pick them out of a bundle of words intended to destroy your calm and your points and your reason. This is also like studying logic, as many on the 'Net know. Once you can recognize an attack Ad Hominem, you no longer have to be swayed off course by one.
Regarding this reaction that travels a continuum from nasty comments to Minutemen rallies, I often quote a brilliant passage by the author Derrick Jensen on this in my post titled Let's Have Nexus:
From the perspective of those who are entitled, the problems begin when those they despise do not go along with—and have the power and wherewithal to not go along with—the perceived entitlement. ...Several times I have commented that hatred felt long and deeply enough no longer feels like hatred, but more like tradition, economics, religion, what have you. It is when those traditions are challenged, when the entitlement is threatened, when the masks of religion, economics, and so on are pulled away that hate transforms from its more seemingly sophisticated, "normal," chronic state—where those exploited are looked down upon, or despised—to a more acute and obvious manifestation. Hate becomes more perceptible when it is no longer normalized.
Another way to say all of this is that if the rhetoric of superiority works to maintain the entitlement, hatred and direct physical force remains underground. But when that rhetoric begins to fail, force and hatred waits in the wings, ready to explode.
—The Culture of Make Believe, Derrick Jensen
A great example of this can be found on any of the comment sections of unmoderated "brown" blogs, or in the moderated (and never made visible) comment junk bins of "brown blogs." For example, a friend Marisa runs a site called Latina Lista ("Smart Latina") which is top notch in terms of a News blog that focuses on "brown" issues, Mexican American issues, and does so without the heavy editorial tone you might get from mine. Hers is a rather impersonal (not a put-down, works great with her style and content), straightforward newsy blog. It simply doesn't buy the typical White Lens view. But next to my admittedly "radical" blog, hers is quite conservative for a "brown" blog. (She is sometimes linked by the bigger blogs because of this, yet I do not see her on their blogrolls). And yet, you will not see White Males get uglier than when responding poorly to a woman who is smart, educated, otherwise powerful, and especially brown. I have watched the haters at her place for a long time now, astounded that she even gives them room to talk.
When Marisa commented on the recent Homeland Security tactic of intimidating this year's Cinco de Mayo gatherings, which led them to be cancelled, an anonymous commenter referenced the recent gestapo tactics (teargas and rubber bullets fired into) a crowd of marching Mexican Americans in LA (now being investigated by the FBI for use of excessive force):
Personally I wish it was real bullets and we can only hope our government ends this invasion with superior force ending it for good, helped by a huge strong wall at the border.
Do not think that is rare. Do not "Other" that commenter and say he is a sleazy, sick strange individual. Please believe me when I say I could fill this entire post with similar and even worse sentiments. From Left- and Right- wing typists. Just as Jensen said, when the typical invisible structures in place are violated by those who no longer wish to go along with them, the rhetoric gets very ugly, and will eventually turn to violence, when that rhetoric fails to dampen these "transgressions." Any "mainstream" blog you read that does not bear these vicious tirades simply keeps away from the controversy. The lack of the hate does not equal a lack of racist thought any more than a lack of lynchings in our society indicates the struggle for Civil Rights is over. And this is why we all need to be concerned with this.
Donna again puts it well:
Back to white POC, I think it's easy to see the conservative POC this way, but there are also liberal POC like this. Many of the most linked to and accepted POC in the liberal blogosphere are like this, the same goes for those POC who blog on mostly white blogs. There are exceptions, Steve Gilliard comes to mind. I think he is popular because he has a variety of viewpoints about issues that white people are interested in. He hasn't changed his writing to agree with white people, but he also does not concentrate his posts on mostly racial issues. That alone does make him "safer". Also Wampum, I don't think it will hurt MBW or EBW's feelings to say that alot of their popularity comes from the Koufax Awards. They have both mentioned it already themselves, that their readers spike during the awards, but only the usual suspects are commenting on their meatier threads.I won't name names, because I am not interested in starting a new flame war. But these white POC bloggers tend to not write about racial issues but say things like, I am glad I can talk about anything, and not race, because my readers are colorblind.
Psst, the only reason your readers are colorblind is because you do not talk about race.
You're not off the hook with an occasional safe foray into talking a few words on race, and then letting it go, she goes on to say. And I say she is right. We know what happens when a large blog that normally has a good amount of rational conversation peeps out from under the White Lens, and dares to think humanely in a fashion that, consequently, offends the typical racist and barely-submerged thought that predominates our American culture. We know what happens when seemingly COLORBLIND blogs suddenly show that they can see color, and what it signifies in terms of struggle. Just see the Brad Blog for a recent example. "Eliminationist Rhetoric"? Plenty to spare. Seemingly sane and "LIBERAL" humans, sometimes called WHITEPROGRESSIVES suddenly advocating decapitations, mass-murder, and every kind of hateful harm you can summon. Because suddenly, they have a target that is not human in their eyes.
But...what happened to being "progressive"? What happened to being "liberal"?
Liberal: marked by generosity : OPENHANDED <a liberal giver> b : given or provided in a generous and openhanded way <a liberal meal>
I find it very interesting, as a hallmark of this "White Lens" that I continually speak of that one group of people is allowed to decide the reality for another group (or many groups), as well as what is best for them. True, it's infuriating, but more than that, it's sad. It's frustrating. It's challenging. Because the very dynamic that continues harm on the Brown™ prevents the mind suffering behind the dynamic from coming to awareness of same. So tricky.
This "knowing what's best for all" is typically White® and what I call "the colonizer's" view. If you grok my use there, you understand better the controversial post I wrote about Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt's transracial adoption habit, titled Nezua's 2006 Colonizers of the Year.. When understanding this "colonizer's view," as I call it, we can just hear Kirk on the bridge, talking about some good but primitive group of aliens that need the Federation's intervention to find their way. This is part of why some grow so very offended and befuddled by my take on Jolie. In their eyes, I am attacking benevolence. How gross. What on earth is wrong with me? How DARE I posit that placing a brown baby from some "third world country" and immersing them in the home and culture of an American celebrity, giving them a snazzy new name and a place in the roost of our collective dreams—American celebrity—was not THE MOST bestest thing you could ever do? What am I? Some kind of Jolie-hater? Some kind of woman-hater? Some kind of commie?
A recent comment on the post asked me "where's the data to support the claim that kids uprooted from their 'true' cultural/ethnic heritage and raised in the US suffer/are alienated/resent their colonizing parents?" And I have to assume they did not read the thread. And thus, don't really want to learn about what we are discussing.
"Data" they want, so they say. And what would this be? Books housed in accredited libraries, perhaps, they want. Science journals measuring the fractions that add up to a pile of sharp-edged and fractured identity and pain in an individual. I don't have that data. What I do have are numerous blogs that swarmed to link to me after that post. Blogs like The Transracial Korean Adoptee Nexus and Twice the Rice and Racilicious. I got letters from transracial adoptees thanking me profusely for making the post. I dug up wounds, and posts ensued where memories, and pain and anger poured out, and others reading got to understand a bit of what was behind such a seemingly benign and benevolent act as the wiping out of a person's culture in the name of "colorblindness." Those who wanted to understand, that is. Because like that commenter's rebuttal to the post, most challenges such as this—"prove to me that my view on others is wrong"—come in the form of an impossible request. There is no "proving" to these people that their views on others are not the end-all-be-all on that issue. If I point them to personal stories, they say that this is "largely speculative and anecdotal." Very snazzy English. Very arrogant Deciders. They refuse to consider that they may not understand everything in the world, even when at issue is the lives of others, the thoughts of others, the feelings of others.
This is the White Lens. And it will not be pried off. This is why my brown friends do not engage in trying to change any minds on it. The owner must one day turn and realize there is a painful glare in their eye. Then, they can do the work of tearing it away themselves. And just as my verb choice indicates, there will be pain in this loss of vantage point, as it implies a loss of privilege.
To that commenter I simply replied that they could find that data they wanted by reading blogs by brown people who experienced similar stories. Do you think my words will matter to them?
A commenter on that Brad Blog post I linked had some very insightful things to say about today's immigration issue, and I quoted MarcG in my post The New N•••••• in Town.
It's a shame that the so-called US progressive movement isn't involved with what is obviously the true front of progressivism in the United States in the 21st century. The struggle for human rights led by immigrants.As in the 60s, so many so-called political people stood on the sidelines or contented themselves with reading about how King and activist blacks fought for a more free USA, the progressive movement of today is for the most part, only watching as the real progressive movement, mostly latinos, fight for further realization of the USA some say exists right now and others say used to exist but certainly that we all want.

And this is really, the crux of my post today. No funny stereotypes of Mexicans, no cleverly-metaphorized lessons in Mexican history, no soft-pedaling my stance. I know I am bound to kick up lots of hostility by this, but hell. I do anyway. Even when I'm doing my best to play GoodBoy.
We, right now, are facing a struggle for HUMAN rights that could not be more obvious or pronounced. With each move the US Government makes against Mexican migrant workers—from jailing children in prison camps, to breaking up families that labor for America and pay taxes never retrieved, to allowing hatemongers to frame the mainstream debate, to bringing inappropriate, unwarranted violence on those exercising their First Amendment rights or those reporting on the demonstrations—the silence from the mainstream blogs becomes egregiously deafening. Do these blogs hide behind the pus-riddled logic that litters the threads like at Brad Blog's recent foray into this front? Do they tell themselves that REMEMBER, THESE ARE ALIENZZZZ? Or do events like this just not make a blip on their radar? Are they afraid of rousing the ire of their mainstream audiences? Which of these would be a more damning conclusion?
Question: If the crowd at LA were mostly made up of WHITEPROGRESSIVES , rallied and organized by MyDD.com or DailyKos, and instead was marching on Washington, would there be this silence when riot police marched in lines and fired from rifles into crowds that had even mothers and children in strollers in it? Would these blogs follow the issue with passion day after day? Or would they let it pass by, excused by trollers bold enough to threaten death on Mexicans? Would these blogs bother to post enough to say "the teargas and rubber bullets were justified because a) a small group threw water bottles at the cops, b) some marchers wouldn't get back on the sidewalk, c) whatever the next excuse is" or would they not make a peep at all?
What is blogging? Is it a game? Is it real change?
Reading Digby yesterday, I was enjoying a post called It's Baaack, where he writes that "Via Dave Niewert at Orcinus I see that America's ugly white underbelly is showing again" and goes on to inform his readers that "Niewert's work is very important at a time like this because he has documented how these racists and eliminationists are given permission by mainstream figures to let their bigot flag fly:"
And I thought America's ugly white underbelly is...'back?' Really? I thought to myself where had it gone, then? And I went to Niewert's blog, which so often has very well-researched articles that tie in historically. The man does an astounding amount of research, and also posts very beautiful pictures of whales. Still, I had to ask myself why it was that Digby thought "America's ugly white underbelly" had gone anywhere. Was it because he reads Orcinus to keep up on it?
At Niewert's blog I found his impressive series on Eliminationalism in America and these passages struck me, takne from the first installment:
What distinguishes eliminationism -- and particularly the rhetoric that precedes it and fuels it -- is that it represents a kind of self-hatred, especially in an American culture which advertises itself as predicated on inclusiveness, egalitarianism, and equal opportunity, since it runs precisely counter to those ideals. Eliminationists, at heart, really hate the very idea of America.It has its origins, like slavery and war, in some of man's most ancient and most savage impulses: the desire to dominate others, through violence if necessary. However, in contrast, it goes largely unnoticed and largely unexamined, perhaps because it is a side of human nature so ugly we prefer not even to recognize its existence. So much so that only recently have we even had a term like "eliminationism" with which to frame it.
And I thought, hell yeah. This is important stuff. This applies to the Immigrant issue for sure. Then there was this:
What, really, is eliminationism?It's a fairly self-explanatory term: it describes a kind of politics and culture that shuns dialogue and the democratic exchange of ideas for the pursuit of outright elimination of the opposing side, either through complete suppression, exile and ejection, or extermination.
... Rhetorically, it takes on some distinctive shapes. It always depicts its opposition as simply beyond the pale, and in the end the embodiment of evil itself -- unfit for participation in their vision of society, and thus in need of elimination. It often depicts its designated "enemy" as vermin (especially rats and cockroaches) or diseases, and loves to incessantly suggest that its targets are themselves disease carriers. A close corollary -- but not as nakedly eliminationist -- are claims that the opponents are traitors or criminals, or gross liabilities for our national security, and thus inherently fit for elimination or at least incarceration.
It's beautiful, right? Speaks to the time, to the issue, and to my heart. Here is a (white) man doing academic studies and discussions of an issue that I am tied to because of my lineage, my relatives, my family. Here he is doing a wonderful counterpoint to the very visceral and personal essays that we do in the "brown blogosphere." I don't need to go into "cockroach" jokes or how both these paragraphs could apply directly to today's Human Rights struggle as embodied by the Mexican Immigrant issue. It's all right there. As well as two posts reporting on the Hutto Concentration Camp for Kids, which makes great sense, given Neiwert's work on the Japanese Internment camps in the past.
But only two posts? On such an "Important blog" as this? Yes, good work, driven by a good man, and a good writer. And yet...by itself, and without those other blogs I mention—the ones that connect his data, discussion, and analysis to a human experience—how "important" a blog is it to read "in this time"?
I looked for Neiwert's take on the LA violence perpetrated on marching Mexican Americans and undocumented workers and found....nada. I looked for Digby's take on it, and found...nada. I look on Firedoglake, and find...nada. I look on all these Big and Important Liberal blogs and find...nada. There are, of course, notable exceptions, and they matter. Especially when they tie in to the larger issues, which—again, I say—you would think would be on all our front burners:
From Phoenix Woman's guest post on FDL:
Funny how the national media, which had their own cameras, somehow missed in real time most of the happenings that the local folk managed to document. (Except, that is, when it was their own people getting beaten up by the cops.) Marisa Trevino of Latina Lista looks at this — and the police beatings of persons acting to document the events — in the context of a post on World Press Freedom Day. Brad Blog also has video of the police attacks. Once again, we have the poor and the not-so-powerful standing up to the rich and powerful.So it is good that these big blogs who, perhaps, are not comfortable speaking endlessly on issues a bit "foreign" to them, feature guest posters. But we cannot do it alone. Because I am speaking of a regular, enduring and committed eye on this issue. Sure, sure, I can already hear Atrios' dismissive and mocky tone, responding that he does not need to be concerned with any one groups' MOST IMPORTANT ISSUE EVAH...but in case it's not clear, I am preempting that "logic." This "group" is Liberals, is Progressives, is Feminists, is Americans. Remember the Dream?
Let me add some more:
1. From The Primary Contradiction, (which is a great original blog, but this happens to be a quoted article):
As Saladin Muhammad of the Southern-based Black Workers for Justice stated so well, the Black struggle is fundamental to any struggle for justice since it is African slave labor that created the economic base and the political base to control the vast stolen wealth in this country. That struggle makes this national liberation movement of an oppressed people permanently attached to the general working class struggle for liberation. This is why it became the standard bearer and representative of all the struggles for self determination of oppressed people and labor rights here in the U.S.The demand for self determination was dramatically highlighted by the immigrant community, led by Latin@ workers on May 1, 2006. And, by calling for a boycott and utilizing aspects of a general strike, it made it clear that this was also a labor issue—linking it, like the Black liberation struggle, to the overall struggle for working-class liberation.
2. From a commenter "Alfonso," on a great, deeply-researched and intelligent Mexican-American blog called Para Justicia y Libertad
I was there and tear gas was used in the far end of the park, away from where the rally was being held. when that happened people started running towards the park. The police directly infront of us didn’t say anything, no instructions, warnings, etc; all of a sudden a bunch of motorcycle cops decended on us (by the 99cent store) folowed by police on foot (they were shooting the rubber bullets and bean bags) we ran north, at which point the cops entered the park pushing people around, the people at the park didn’t know what was going on because they were isolated from the intial confrontation.
3. From Artist Clinton Fein's SFGate blog:
Perhaps if the Warriors fans were tear-gassed and shot with rubber bullets, there would be the appropriate righteous indignation. The right to peaceful assembly and free speech is, and should be, a cherished First Amendment right. One worth defending and fighting for. Where, please tell me, is our outrage? In the wake of Don Imus’ firing, if the censoring of words that make decent people uncomfortable represents an attempt to establish or maintain “civility” in an online environment, the results appear to be nothing more than meaningless, trivial niceties that do little more than inspire, at best, silent apathy.
3. From a favorite blog Having Read the Fine Print..... written by a young, black, very intelligent woman ("Blackamazon") who brooks no bullshit:
When people do things it became very clear to me early on that it was about them. How it feels to feel good about them, about how they think of themselves. And the truth is ..I feel little to nothing for the sisterhood anymore.
It doesn't exist.
And I thank god for it everyday.
Don Imus and VT showed that to me loud and clear.
Suddenly race was on everyone's lips.
No one asked the sistas.
And I mean the poor ones the ones who were degraded. Not the ones who looked good and had pedigrees.
No one asked the loudmouths, the protesters,the women who had stopped buying hip hop albums long ago and had been flipping their shit since time immemorial.
As Donna says in her post that links to the one I quoted above, I could quote Blackamazon's entire post. But I'll stop there, because it brings me back to my thoughts on deciding for others. Why are none of these amazing (brown) writers "very important at a time like this"? This is not even a comprehensive list, but when you gather them all, and read them all, you could never be under the impression that America's "White underbelly" has gone anywhere. Why are these writers not on Niewert's blogroll? Why are they not on Digby's blogroll? Or on the Crooks N Liars blogroll? Is there an answer that won't smack of the type of elitism that is driving so much of the Right wing today? Why are these voices that live in the thick of it not being asked or referenced more often? Sure, some Left wing blogs are now "brave" enough to use "fuck" or "shit," but that ain't bravery. That's just spice. Bravery is daring to do that stuff your conscience/belly/heart tells you you should, but that you know may make even your friends curl their lip at you. We are in some serious shit, my friends. And we need some very brave voices out there. This is what I am getting at when I talk of connecting philosophies, or the "broader view." I do not think it is enough to chase Bush and his lies around. I think we need to dig up the whole lid. We need to talk about why we allow the persecution of humans in a way that is inarguably inhuman. We need to look at why we avoid it. We need to check ourselves, and how we benefit. Even by remaining silent. Especially by remaining silent.
Massive blogs like Hullabaloo and Crooks N Liars link to Orcinus' zombie-obama post with the quickness. My brown friends would sigh and tell me it is a White Boy's Club, and that Niewert represents the safe face of today's racial discussions. It is cynical, yes. Is it true? These same friends mostly have given up on "making white people understand," but perhaps because I spent a decade or so of my life trying to be something I was not, I still empathize with how easy it is to not see important things. I still hold out hope I can convince some holdouts. Because I know that some of you are understanding of what I'm saying. I've read your comments that show as much. So I am appealing to your braver, better natures. And I need everyone to know that this is not a slander on Digby, Orcinus, or Atrios, or anyone else. Yes, I hold Orcinus to a higher standard on these issues, but I'm sure it's obvious why. However, if a reader wants to see this post as nothing more than "jealousy" or "slamming" other writers, well....there's nothing I can do about that. Those who want to understand my point by now, will.
I, and my friends in the "brown blogosphere" are important blogs to read at a time like this. That is why I have done so much linking with this post. There are many more on my sidebars, and I suggest most of them strongly (some are still on because I just haven't weeded the few out who I no longer want there!). We are connected—perhaps not by data or reams of research, all—but by family, and occupation, and our very histories and lives. My father is a first generation Mexican American author who teaches and writes and has written on these issues for decades. His mother, my nanita, is gone from this world. But she wanted more than anything to become an American, and her Social Security card, once she did, was a document that brought her great pride. My familia fought in America's wars so that she could come. This was her American Dream, and she lived it. I now live to see the land that she toiled in the fields for, the land she loved perhaps more than Mexico, look at our own people as subhuman. Ignore their plight. This is why you may want to read blogs like mine if you care to understand this "underbelly." Yes, I burn hot, as many of the "brown blogs" do. Just as the feminist blogs do. Just as the anti-ablist blogs do. But change and truth are not lukewarm entities or processes, and nobody has to agree with all I write. I am sure JC doesn't, and I'm sure Glenn Greenwald doesn't, but they both read and blogroll me. It doesn't mean we haven't had rough moments, adjusting viewpoint pangs, or disagreements. But—to me—it means they earn the name "progressive" if only for their effort and willingness to move outside the mainstream boundaries. (And of course it shows they have damn good taste.) But this is not about me. I have plenty of exposure. I am happy at my place, and happy to guest post here, and happy that my words get out there.
I am not happy, however, to see how contained these points of view and discussions are in the "mainstream" blog world. My point is that there are many who are connected to this struggle. You want to talk about race? You want to talk about eliminationalist rhetoric? You want to talk about LEFT vs RIGHT....but that leaves no room for others, does it? Is there only Left and Right? Is it really so simple?
What, really, is eliminationism?It's a fairly self-explanatory term: it describes a kind of politics and culture that shuns dialogue and the democratic exchange of ideas for the pursuit of outright elimination of the opposing side, either through complete suppression... ....
Dialogue and the democratic exchange of ideas. We need more of this. More as it relates to one of the most important Human Rights issues today in America.
If this reads at all as confrontational, feel free to consider it as much, Mainstream Progressive Blogosphere. I am throwing down the gauntlet. I am slapping your soft cheek with my gritty cotton glove. We need not duel, but if we are not seeing the ILLEGAL ALIEN issue as one that concerns all of us who profess to be interested in Progressivism and Human Rights, then we are at odds. I don't write this to castigate or denigrate any of these blogs I mention. Because we need you. We need your interest. All of us do. We need your attention to this issue that is crucial to today's Human Rights struggle, to our modern-day Civil Rights struggle. I don't need you as adversaries. There are always adversaries waiting in the wings, and there are too many nowadays. But movements that result in honest to goodness progress stirs the waters, challenges convention, brings pain. And also much pain is visited upon that workforce that makes our American engine hum—those human families—by our pretending the issue fades away between Obama posts on Big Box Blogs.
So is blogging a game? Or about real change?
Crossposted at Jesus' General and Correntewire.




Comentarios (69)
B dijo:
I'm returning to this post to read it in full, but I saw the YouTube clip and Akon was being violent towards that girl on stage, and she was screaming. Malkin is no feminist hero by a long shot, and I'm not sure why she picked this particularly incident up, like the Rosie O'Donnell incident. It was most likely to take a shot at a rapper, not out of concern for the girl.
Palabras por B spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 11:30 AM
nezua limón xolagrafik-jonez dijo:
yes, please read the entire thing. i have not watched the clip of his "Freaking," and i hope this point doesnt derail the points made in a long post that is not so much about that. i guess tho, even if Akon was a bonafide asshole who took things too far with his sexual dance contest, it does not warrant more attention than burned, raped, shot girls in Iraq who didnt even do as much as volunteer to go up on stage in a sketchy situation but who only live in their own country. that's my point in the comparison. the post really talks about much much more than even that comparison tho.
i look forward to hearing your comments on the post proper.
Palabras por nezua limón xolagrafik-jonez spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 11:34 AM
Cero dijo:
Muy interesante and - referring to an earlier post - it is true, 'illegal' is the new n-word, good point. And yes, it was weird how, in the Imus thing, people seemed to defend the students because they were nice girls, not because *nobody* should be spoken of that way.
Another fragment - I had an conversation yesterday with one of my white guy friends, this one being gay, liberal, and critical. I learned something about entitlement. Now, I like this guy and we've been friends for decades. But he says: why do these foreigners get to come here and do as well as I am? He's talking about middle class, legal immigrants, not the undocumented. But you see what I mean ... liberal, yet still entitled and white-o-centric. It is at these times I think wow, it's true, the Euro-types really do not get it.
Palabras por Cero spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 11:48 AM
john sky dijo:
Where does elimination end, ese'. My great grandmother was cherokee but the indians think I'm A white guy. My grandfather lost his tribe long ago - either an "angl" or a Saxon and his ancestors were sent to James town as witches and other undesireables to die in sight of plenty. Others who were not "peers" were sent to Australia as violent criminals. Others were sent to Mexico by the Arisocracy of Spain to act as slaves to the Spanish "peers".
So then as this mongrel I married a brown girl. Her familia didn't like me cause I looked White - or indian - or some other mixto. What to do. All of these labels and tribes are now are a false Karass. Most, if not all, of the so-called white southerners are from the congress with their ancestors' black slaves. For them to now seek safety in white supremacy and/or christianity(founded by other brown people, Jesus', et al) is kinda funny if it were not so sad.
What to do? This false polarization does not really lead to safety for anyone. Only when we can drill down to the essential humanity is each of us and understand that the family of man is more than just slick marketing hype will we understand that we are all in the same boat, that we are all cut from the same few chromosomes, that we are all semi well dressed joven. We are all meat on the same bone...
Palabras por john sky spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 02:43 PM
RickB dijo:
I guess it may be sycnronicity but I keep seeing the Pastor Martin Niemöller poem, I guess people around the world (just saw it on a mid-east meta blog regarding free speech and here) are feeling a similar thing and it applies here, if the mainstream progs don't get solidarity they will be like the author at the end of the poem
-When they came for me,
there was no one left to speak out.-
unless they mean to curry favour with the corporatocracy, I guess we will see the wheat sorted from the chaff here. And the ones who have made the quiet internal bargain of accepting the cheap goods, food and services just so long as the don't have to see the human cost will be exposed.
Like Ghandi said "What do I think of Western civilization? I think it would be a very good idea" (and ok that was us Brits occupying his country) but it speaks to that arrogant thinking of one group knowing what's best even as its own sphere is full of cruelty.
ps. which reminds me of this great essay
http://www.atlanticfreepress.com/content/view/1480/1/
Palabras por RickB spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 03:10 PM
Dead Inside dijo:
Wow.
Just wow.
This is super-powerful, Nezua. I can't do justice with any long string of words of praise that this piece deserves. Certainly, part of the power is that you are working together with Donna and Black Amazon and other bloggers who we all know and love and respect so very much and you bring it all together for an audience that desperately needs it. I think that part of the power of this is, in my mind, the audience it is going to, that pit that is the comments section of Jesus General's site. I am angry with you now that I have to go there and read them and I am wincing at the thought. There should be nothing but universal agreement and soul searching and building upon. That's what I damn well expect and demand and if I see anything less I am not going to be very happy.
If that happens, though, it can't be said that you did not make your case clearly and provide an entire library of data to support it. It doesn't need a Keynote presentation with Al Gore on a cherry picker to make the point. It's all right there.
Last night I watched A Huey P. Newton Story, the Spike Lee adaptation of Roger Guenveur Smith's one-man show. Which lead me to read some of Dr. Newton's writings. My heart is broken, knowing how much Dr. Newton had right, how far he was pushing the envelope of intersectionality and I wish I could share my feelings with everyone, though they are bittersweet and complex. It's all so pertinent, though, what was being written and done in the late '60s and '70s and how, despite Dr. Newton's personal prejudices, he was laying them aside for the good of the revolution.
I hope I haven't quoted too much. (From here: http://historyisaweapon.org/defcon1/newtonq.html ) This was from August of 1970. How visionary is that? How pertinent is it still today? I believe very much so and I'm so very saddened that thirty-seven years later we still have not merged these revolutionary groups together. Why not? I think we all know why not.
White supremacist thinking on the left has been holding us all back for my entire lifetime when every brilliant and energetic and powerful revolutionary group has been working for equality and justice and opening doors and working and giving their very lives to bring real change for all people who are oppressed. It's not enough that the FBI works diligently to destroy our camaraderie, but that we sabotage ourselves? No. No damn more.
Palabras por Dead Inside spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 03:17 PM
Phoenix Woman dijo:
We're definitely not ignoring it over at FDL. Pach would have posted on the LA cop rage, but he wasn't around to do so, so I did it. (Nice to see you over there, by the way.)
Palabras por Phoenix Woman spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 03:25 PM
Dead Inside dijo:
Oh shit.
I just want to make perfectly clear that the quote from Dr. Newton is not in any way meant to criticize what you are saying, but to re-inforce it. That people of color have always had a hand out to help up white people who are oppressed and all we have done over the years (though, there are notable exceptions) is spit in your hands.
If anyone has any question as to why people of color might not have full trust in white people, think on those thirty-seven years and know exactly why that trust might be wearing just a little bit thin by now.
The tenacity of spirit and forgiveness of people of color to continue to reach out to white allies after all we have done to make anyone question the wisdom of the original thesis is just beyond my ability to comprehend. Perhaps that just proves how important the original thesis is, that we all need each other.
Justice and equality for everyone has one big honkin' roadblock to becoming a reality, my white peers. Us.
Palabras por Dead Inside spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 03:30 PM
Donna Darko dijo:
The big progressive blogs are whiter than ever in content. So boring I only read the titles of their posts in my reader.
Palabras por Donna Darko spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 04:09 PM
will dijo:
I read you often. Thank you.
Went over to JG to comment in support.
Palabras por will spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 04:12 PM
nyral21 dijo:
Nez, I just want to say that I used to...dislike Mexicans very much. The White Lens of the TV always showed me images of lazy siesta-enjoying cotton clothed lumps, their skin absorbing the dirt of the fields they would sometimes work in but more often lay in. They were worthless rubes who were contolled by a government made corrupt through its own inherent laziness. None of my beliefs were crystalized, they were instead vague notions fed by a slow but steady stream of stereotypes and negative press. Since my "awakening" as a person of a different sexual orientation, I've come to see what it's like to be the "other". Oh, I could hide, yes. Skin color gives no indication of my preferred gender. The closet door is wide indeed. But the dishonesty sickened me. So as the religous right and the ignorant students at my school began to fling the rhetoric of the outsider at me, it opened my eyes for the first time on how such stereotypes are employed in the quest for fear, which is really the quest for power. The adhesive that held the White Lens over my eyes began to lose strength, and continues to to this day. I have since tried very hard to step outside of the fearfull shell I allowed to be constructed around myself and look at all people as equal, even those who would subdue me. You, and the General, have been light bearers in this. But more needs to be done. The issue of ending discrimination is perhaps the most important issue of the day. It even ties into the Iraq war. Its very easy to occupy the land of the "knuckle-draggers", a la John Gibson. The prevalence is astounding. So thank you, Nez, for the clarion call.
Palabras por nyral21 spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 05:34 PM
Planet B dijo:
Saw your post on JG's site but couldn't comment there, so thought I'd pop on over. Great post. I could not agree more. Thing is, you're right: blogging is a game. It doesn't matter. It's part of why I try to spend as little time on it as possible. The "progressive" blogs have a huge blind spot that includes anything remotely radical, like human rights for all as well as (I would say) being critical of late-model corporate capitalism. Anything that approaches the "dirty anarchist" mindset scares the living crap out of them. I don't think many of them were in the streets in Seattle or Genova.
I'm afraid I don't have any answers, only similar observations. But I do think the liberal blogosphere will undergo a huge challenge in about 2-4 years when true progressives (those concerned with democracy and human rights for ALL) will see how they're really just Democratic supporters without a broader context of understanding.
One thing that always amazes me is when I point people to Eduardo Galeano's work (specifically Open Veins of Latin America), no one ever seems to have heard of it. We'll get there one day, I think, but not through the mainstream liberal blogosphere, I'm afraid.
Palabras por Planet B spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 05:53 PM
B dijo:
"even if Akon was a bonafide asshole who took things too far with his sexual dance contest, it does not warrant more attention than burned, raped, shot girls in Iraq..."
Yeah, I absolutely agree. I didn't mean to imply otherwise. It was dumb to post before I finished the piece. Please feel free to delete my comment for derailing.
I appreciate this reflection:
"At first, the insults and dehumanization and even subtle, smart, digs seem terribly swift and unknowable, and hurtful. But after a while, you realize they really only take a few forms. And you can not only watch for them, but can pick them out of a bundle of words intended to destroy your calm and your points and your reason. This is also like studying logic, as many on the 'Net know. Once you can recognize an attack Ad Hominem, you no longer have to be swayed off course by one."
I've long been at the beginning stage. I hope to develop a harder belly in time. I often think about this reading such powerful stuff by the progressive brown blogosphere. I have a lot of respect for the courage and almost boundless energy of people like Bfp and Ann, to keep fighting trolls almost daily in addition to real life. I was upset when and why Nubian left blogging, but it was definitely understandable.
And I hear you, whiteprogs seriously need to step it up and use the leverage they have.
Palabras por B spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 05:56 PM
Kai dijo:
Nez, well I definitely admire your ongoing efforts at white outreach, 'mano. I guess somebody's gotta do it; though I'd probably count myself among your brown friends who are largely done trying to educate "WHITEPROGRESSIVES" whose contempt for people of color drips from their constant dismissals of our perspectives.
Then again I suppose I've more than said my piece on the matter, beginning with the experience of trying to explain at FDL why blackface and yellowface are racist and being treated to vicious attacks and hate mail for months afterwards as I insisted on continually writing about racism in liberal blogland, which as far I can see remains unabated. I no longer read mainstream blog-celebrities like Kos or FDL or whatever, but just last week I was directed to a bunch of white liberal commentary saying "prove to me that blackface is racist" and such.
What's funny is that I originally figured that, being a CT resident and Lamont campaign volunteer, I'd have something in common with FDLers. Not. I mean, this is the site that called the entire nation of Japan "a hell-hole" which has never had an original idea because the Japanese kill their creative types; and when a Daily Kos diarist took issue with this bigotry, the venom which FDLers spat at this intransigence said it all. If such people engage the immigration debate, it will be strictly because it plays well in their Democratic Party electoral strategy; but expect lots of cringeworthy commentary when the subject of race comes up.
Basically, I'm with Donna Darko; the click-obsessed ad-billboard blog-celebrities are boring.
Anyway, thanks for all the hard work, Nez. Keep on keepin on. Salud.
Palabras por Kai spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 06:18 PM
kactus dijo:
I found it interesting that some people only caught that one point--of how the big white box blogs marginalize POC/other voices, and immediately went on the defensive. Does this mean that for the next couple of weeks the big blogs will throw some stuff up on their front pages that give lip service, and then go back to business as usual?
I jsut want to say that this post is unbelievable from start to finish, Nez. I keep reading it over and over. My paltry contribution: thank you, thank you, thank you.
Palabras por kactus spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 06:22 PM
nezua limón xolagrafik-jonez dijo:
Nez, well I definitely admire your ongoing efforts at white outreach, 'mano. I guess somebody's gotta do it...
maybe i was born into this nexus, this confluence, this divide, this netherlands for a reason. i don't know. i'll do it until it feels wrong. but even the one or two grateful emails i get over the twenty hateful ones seems to feel like all the validation needed.
Palabras por nezua limón xolagrafik-jonez spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 06:31 PM
Magniloquence dijo:
I'd be surprised if even that happened, honestly. Things seem to be business as usual, at the moment.
Nezua, you've hit another one out of the park. Maybe one day it will sink in. Or something.
I'll admit that the scholarly bits of me perked up a bit at the whole "is it (just) a game" thing. I wrote my thesis on .... well, on a lot of things, but one of the major themes was the relative importance/weight/reality of virtual communities/communications/identities/actions.
On the one hand, no, it's not "real" the way having a conversation face to face is real, or money raised for a campaign is real; it doesn't always have the social cred or direct impact that those things can have. But that doesn't mean that what goes on here is false, or that it is any less valid or worthwhile than things that happen on the other side of the screen. It doesn't mean you don't have an effect.
Everyone responds differently to different situations. People (like me) may have an easier time with difficult or confrontational conversations when they're typing/writing/posting. The presence of search engines and mores relating to evidence ("Oh yeah? Where's your link?") means that, when arguing, one has at least the expectation of looking for things to support one's thoughts. And access to information confirming or denying one's impressions of one's opponents' arguments. You can learn a lot from a person that makes you mad enough to go looking for reasons to prove them wrong.
And that's not nothing. Changing minds, expanding horizons.... that's not nothing. That's not unimportant. It might not feel like it... but it really does happen, and it really does matter.
That said... there is a very real point at which one looks at all the scheming, the pettiness, the insularity and incestuousness of the group, and concludes that it is all a game. When people are being hurtful, one can take solace in the fact that they're all just being silly people, yelling for with all their might at people they've never even met. When it seems like nothing is happening, one can take comfort in going to a meeting or having a real-life conversation, and seeing what is being done. Fifty more hits won't make or break your real-life worth.
It's a balancing act, and a matter of focus. I think you're getting it right. Do what is best for you... for your mental and physical health. We're here because we're getting something we need from you, and because we like you. And we'll be here if you need to take a walk, or vent, or just spend some time talking about your garden. (How are the peppers doing, anyway?)
Palabras por Magniloquence spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 07:07 PM
nezua limón xolagrafik-jonez dijo:
no, DI, i got you. the quote is brilliant. and thanks for all your energy and words.
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thank you all, phoenix woman, RickB, Magnilo-May. i appreciate all your thoughts and comments and time reading this.
Palabras por nezua limón xolagrafik-jonez spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 07:55 PM
Pat Logan dijo:
Wow. Too much for me to absorb right now. I did go over to the link of your post about AJ. I understood what you meant. Some of those comments were unbelievable; I couldn't even get through the whole list.
I respect anyone who can talk about this stuff, and you do it with humor and balance...and you garden too! What kind of person chides someone for going into their garden? Perhaps they need some garden time to unstress their brains.
In all seriousness, I'm one white person who has benefited from what you do, and I thank you for it.
Palabras por Pat Logan spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 08:05 PM
nezua limón xolagrafik-jonez dijo:
and you know what else, kai? now that i've thought about it a little. it's really not all "white outreach." it's not all about reaching people. i'm teaching myself as i write these. that's what they all are. like my songs, i write new ones to teach myself, to practice my new ways of seeing and thinking. they are part talking, part singing to myself. i do hope to reach someone, but i am already reaching a part of myself, the (probably) most important part.
Palabras por nezua limón xolagrafik-jonez spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 08:06 PM
nezua limón xolagrafik-jonez dijo:
nyral21, that's a beautiful story. i know exactly what you mean. that's how i came to totally fall in sync with gays, with trans issues, with women...with at least the spirit behind just about any group i can think of who is in a position i feel has similar struggles, pangs, awakenings. it's an empathy that dissolves the "othering" of so many normally-"othered" groups. that's why i feel one of the biggest changes we can make is that journey to see what is trapping us, or distorting us, and see to that. because wow, so much changes when we see past those blinders. it's like doing ten times the work, it's like a lens that threw ten images, you've taken it off, you see more directly on many issues. i probably didn't do the process justice with that mess of words. but i do know what you mean. thanks for telling that story.
Palabras por nezua limón xolagrafik-jonez spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 08:10 PM
Emily dijo:
Thank you for writing this, Nezua.
You know, I'm no big-time blogger, never will be, but blogs like yours have literally changed my life. I am continually humbled, and I am continually wriggling my way out of that white cocoon. At first I learned to shut up and read, and now I am learning to raise my voice.
Palabras por Emily spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 08:14 PM
nezua limón xolagrafik-jonez dijo:
yes, pat. it's a long arc. and it's not a quick read, maybe. it's what i felt the need to write. i don't require anyone absorb it all at once, or even read it. only if it moves you to do so, if you have time, all those factors.
i really thank you for letting me know your experience. and i know what you mean about the garden! wow. more people need to spend time gardening. it's just so soothing.
i don't have time to wade through ugly comment threads. i try to stay away from it. i try to say what i feel and think and mean as clearly as i can in my post. we don't have to see things the same way in the end. i tried to talk about something important to me. sure, it's imperfect. but if someone is open, it will make it through.
thanks again for your time and energy.
Palabras por nezua limón xolagrafik-jonez spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 08:15 PM
nezua limón xolagrafik-jonez dijo:
Emily, thank you. Yours is the voice that assures me any pain or sweat or hassle i expend doing these things is completely worth it.
Palabras por nezua limón xolagrafik-jonez spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 08:16 PM
zimzo dijo:
It's too bad all of the important points you make this piece are going to be ignored because you couldn't even bother to spend two minutes of your time to watch the video of what happened, which is, in fact, pretty horrific.
Palabras por zimzo spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 08:20 PM
XP dijo:
Great post 'mano. I left a commented over at CorrenteWire, however, I Dugged your post. It is one of those that should be read by all the Big Boys and I hope they take up your challenge.
This post is in line with what was written by The New Republic and in In These Times. I already know the answer to your challenge... no matter, as long as you and all my blog amigo have my back, that is all that matters to me.
Palabras por XP spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 08:23 PM
nezua limón xolagrafik-jonez dijo:
Siempre, my friend.
Palabras por nezua limón xolagrafik-jonez spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 08:27 PM
nezua limón xolagrafik-jonez dijo:
zimzo, if all the points made in my post are ignored by somebody because Akon is an abusive man, then they didn't want to see the points in the first place. of this, i am sure.
Palabras por nezua limón xolagrafik-jonez spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 08:30 PM
Kai dijo:
it's not all about reaching people. i'm teaching myself as i write these. that's what they all are. like my songs, i write new ones to teach myself, to practice my new ways of seeing and thinking.
So true, Nez. So true. I feel the same way about the stuff I write; I'd write it exactly as I do if it were never to be seen by another human being. Great point.
Palabras por Kai spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 08:51 PM
Donna dijo:
I did see the video, and what happened to that girl was horrible, but worse than being gang raped, shot, burned, and having your entire family murdered to cover it up? Um, no. And that was the point that Nezua was making, Zizmo, he didn't need to see the video to know that truth. One girl was bruised and humiliated, but walked away alive, and Malkin is INCENSED AND OUTRAGED and spurred into action; the other girl is raped and murdered with her family, and Malkin is miffed and makes excuses. She doesn't organize around this to have investigations into how often this is happening or how it can be prevented from happening again, because her political "game" won't let her condemn the military even when American soldiers are raping and killing little girls and adult women.
Palabras por Donna spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 09:04 PM
Heraclitus (Jeff) dijo:
Where's the data to support your claim that you're learning here?
Palabras por Heraclitus (Jeff) spat forth on el 6 de Mayo, 2007 at 09:42 PM
brownfemipower dijo:
ha, i've been wat