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21 de Marzo, 2008
The Drunken Dealer
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I HONESTLY AM BAFFLED by the phrase used again and again by certain "liberal left wing" bloggers as of late. "Race card." As if just spitting out the phrase somehow destroys a person's points.
If anything can be called "Pulling the Race Card"—i.e., using a fiction-based argument that relies solely on stirring emotion to shut down intelligent conversation—then it is the act of saying someone is using the Race Card that is the actual Race Card!
Can you imagine if I were speaking of how everyone in the world has a duty to keep their sidewalk clear for guests and someone responded that they cannot, because they actually have a rope ladder entrance, so might I speak to that situation—but I just snapped "Oh, pulling the Rope Ladder Card? Loser! Loser!!" and refused to play out the conversation, perhaps ask them what they thought about it, how they might apply their experience to what I have said, or how what I've said might change in the context of their life? Who is the loser? Would anyone take me seriously?
Why is this any different?
Why is it that some don't want to hear anything about race? Do those people who scream RACECARD really feel race has no place in any conversation? Or is it just that they wished it didn't?
I pretty much shrugged it off when I would hear the right wing haters using the dumbass phrase, one that really means "I don't know how to have discussions about race" or "I refuse to consider your experience because I haven't lived it and don't (want to) understand it!" But it is very dissapointing when you hear this nonsense from those you imagine are your allies. Now even some "left wing" bloggers have taken it up, as they see it as some sort of defense against Obama's progression toward the Presidency. I don't know whether to laugh or spit. Or both. What is it about the discussion of race that turns some people into idiots? Do these people think the phrase "Race Card" actually means anything? Have they sat down and thought it out? And do they feel proud for furthering moronic Right-Wing racist memes? Is opposing Obama really worth such a transformation on their own part?
Or—says the cynical commentator within—perhaps it is not much of a transformation at all.
Really, what is it exactly that has these people so agitated? That Obama mentioned his blackness? That he pretends this has implications in America? That he pretends there is a history that haunts our nation? Or that his words imply that there are parts of the human experience that may elude some? (Huge crime, coming from a non-white.)
Whatsamatta? Did Obama just stick his brown finger in the pool and fuck up your nice colorblind patina? Did he go and dispel the illusion of a man who would never talk about race? Shatter the dream that maybe he didn't even know he was black?
Guess what? Obama pulled nada. Obama was dealt the race card the day he was born. And that's that. You don't pull it another or any other day. If you are black or Asian or Latino or Indian or otherwise of The Brown™ and living in the USA, you were dealt that card on the day of your birth. (Or the day the dominant culture decides your "race" is less-than.) It's not a big hand that unfairly scoops the kitty. It's a hand, sadly, that you are taught to keep hidden. Some want you to play a game which pretends you were never dealt that hand. Which is why when you dare allude to it, some idiot—like a pod person snapping back their maw and bellowing to the rest of the clan—will undoubtedly scream RACECARRRRRD!!! in an attempt to make you hide it from the light of day. But this is not something you get to smack away because you don't know how to play.
Hey. It's okay to fear the Royal Flush. But don't be a Drunken Dealer and think you can beat it with a joker!
NOTE: this post references the use of the phrase "Race Card." It is not directed solely against those who don't support Obama, nor is it meant to draw a divide in experiences or alliance except where others' experience is ignored or dismissed by the use of this phrase. I have friends who are "white" and friends who do not support Obama, and that is fine. But I do not and will not keep friends who think bandying about a phrase like "Race Card" as a way of dismissing the black/brown/golden experience is a valid move. In this sense, the use of the phrase is, indeed, one "litmus test" as to whether or not I want to hear your thoughts on anything at all.




Comentarios (4)
Professor Zero dijo:
Correct but now that you give the rope ladder card example I realize the whole thing is just a classic technique of emotional abuse / destabilization / etc. It's an attack on integrity and I have decided, pending further illuminations, that attacks on integrity are the key to emotional / verbal abuse.
For example: I get this kind of thing at work all the time and it is really frustrating. If the person I vote to hire is a woman, it is because I am favoring women, if it is a man, it is because I have an irrational interest in his expertise (it couldn't be that I just found the expertise valid), etc.
Palabras por Professor Zero spat forth on el 21 de Marzo, 2008 at 10:06 AM
nezua
dijo:
Damn you. Pulling the Expertise Card. You have no shame.
Palabras por nezua
spat forth on el 21 de Marzo, 2008 at 10:24 AM
peasant dijo:
DAMN! You had a name for it!? Drunken Dealer! All this time I just considered myself an ignorant, insensitive dumbfuck. Although I don't recall ever using the term "race card" I have certainly been through embarrassing moments in my slow growth process.
Trying to "fit in" I tried my hand at dominoes every Saturday morning. I was the laughing stock of the neighborhood. (5th Ward in Houston) I had to start making wine in my kitchen to help pay off my losses. It gets worse...to the pathetic level..........But I wouldn't have missed it for anything and cherish what it taught me about myself. Even though I was the outsider, my attempts, though feeble, were recognized. I had babysitters and they cared for me.
And yeah, I've had a rope ladder in my life too.
Palabras por peasant spat forth on el 21 de Marzo, 2008 at 05:19 PM
Lisa Harney dijo:
I picked a good day to check back here. I've been mocking people for daring to complain about the race card lately (if people of color are really playing a race card, it must be a three of clubs since everyone sees it coming. I forget who wrote that, but it's a great article somewhere on the web about the race card).
It's yet another way people try to deflect any challenges to their prejudice, because they don't want to be seen as prejudiced, rather than doing the work to try not to be.
Palabras por Lisa Harney spat forth on el 21 de Marzo, 2008 at 10:47 PM